If you follow the Facebook page or YouTube Channel, you probably saw the adorable photos and video of our haircut party with James, Jude and Jeff. My son Grayson (budding film-maker) videoed and documented most of it and put together a great montage of fun moments.
Several people have asked – “Is Jeff pushing the envelope a little by doing this?” And “Is he allowed to do this?”
Jeff can only give James haircuts with court approval from the Amicus Attorney – and as always, he continues to go through the proper channels and get legal approval before haircuts. In addition – Jeff always shows the barber this image of Charlize Theron and is careful to tell him that it can not be shorter than this and needs to be able to be styled as a pixie cut in order to please his mother – just to be sure he is following all the rules.
It costs an arm and a leg just to get approval for this-(YES – he actually has to pay legal fees to communicate with and get approval from the attorney) but it is important to Jeff that James is happy and confident and Jeff wants to honor James’ request and preference of haircut style.
These 5 little boys had so much fun telling the fabulous barbers at Don Juan Barbershop in Coppell exactly what they wanted. James was so eager and excited. He was thrilled.
Unfortunately, his mother did not share his enthusiasm and has filed another motion to modify the terms of the custody so that Jeff can no longer cut James’ hair at all.
This is another example of James’ preferences being pushed aside to suit someone else’s agenda.
We are concerned that if she has complete control that she will attempt to hyper-feminize him prior to trial in order to sway a Jury.
Please continue to pray, share and support this family.
I feel that my sons, James and Jude were gifted to me. I received them not as a man but as a father—as a life’s work in the human spirit, not for glory, and least of all for convention, but for them, to take from the dust of the earth two giggling, crying, innocent human souls that did not exist before, and go with them into heaven. It took some years to understand what that really meant.
My sons were given to me only in trust. Yes, trust for their bodies: fed, rested, and healthy. Also for their minds: educated, reasonable, rhetorically skilled. Mostly for their spirits. My sons are born into a time of a general and universal fear, now so long sustained that the only relief for most men is a sloughing retreat into nihilism and materialism.
There are no more problems of the human spirit. The human heart has been reduced to emotions. The human person has been reduced to a biological machine that exists solely to satisfy innate, immutable, unconscious desires. The possibility of a human nature binding us all in spiritual community, is almost completely forgotten. My sons’ secular community will never teach them this old wisdom.
My sons must learn from me alone the problems of the human spirit, of a soul in need of healing, in conflict with the nous, the true heart, the eye of the soul, that desires God. It is I, their father, that shouts against all civil authority: my sons are men, and wonderfully and fearfully made.
I have had to set aside my own fear. Until then, I had labored under a curse. I had acted not out of love but vanity. My griefs had been of a kind for fools. My victories had been defeats. My heart was but a hydraulic organ not a sacred conscience given by God.
In setting aside all fear, I knew for the first time what a father is: a holy martyr for his family. I could calmly decline to accept the end of my sons’ lives as men. I knew the privilege and dignity to endure, sacrifice, and to be made low. My heart was elevated the lower I made myself. I became an unworthy guide along the narrow way around the dark wood.
I helped my sons to endure and to prevail, and so I became a father for the first time.
The Amicus Attorney has permitted James’ father to cut James’ hair. James’ father believes that Anne Georgulas (on Facebook,on Twitter) wants to feminize James before trial, by letting his hair grow long into a girl’s hairstyle.
The Custody Evaluator, Benjamin Albritton, is taking a long time to complete his evaluation. It’s been three months.
The office assistant says that Dr. Albritton and Dr. Eagle are continuing to “sort through the data and information” they have been given.
This contradicts a previous letter sent by Dr. Albritton that Dr. Eagle had resigned from the case.
Dr Albritton asked James’ father to schedule another in-office visit with James and Jude, this will be the third such visit.
Dr. Albritton asked James’ father to schedule a private visit without the boys. But this is for later and not at this time.
That means the custody evaluation is going to take a lot longer.
We have a hearing scheduled for 28 February, 2019 at 1:30 pm, on Ms. Georgulas’ Motion to Seal.
Ms. Georgulas and the Judges want to hide what they are doing to James. The People of Texas have a right to know what is happening in their Family Courts on this pressing transgender legal and social issue.
The hearing will be in the Associate Judge’s courtroom at Judge Scott Beauchamp, George L. Allen, Sr. Courts Building, 600 Commerce Street, 4th Floor New Tower, Dallas, TX 75202.
It is not a special set. The hearing should be brief, lasting around 20 minutes.
Ms. Georgulas will be represented by her new super-expensive, high-powered law firmKoons-Fuller.
Every. Single. Day. You have to see your son sexually abused, and you have to maintain your calm because the courts are not going to be fair to you. And the only way you can survive this and get your son through this alive is to calmly allow your son to be tortured right before your eyes and outlast the opposition. That’s what it’s like.
We so enjoy every weekend that Jeff has the boys. They came over and played and had dinner and did art projects.
They created these funny little foil people and my table was completely covered with an army of foil men in all kinds of hilarious positions.
They wrestled and laughed and we ended the night exhausted and happy. Happy and blessed to see these boys flourish but at the same time saddened that we won’t see them for 2 weeks and during that time apart they are subjected to a very different life.
The story is the same… and the need is still great.
We have heard that their mother has ramped up her legal team and that we should expect an escalation of legal action including followup on the motion to seal in order that all future court dealings will be unavailable for us to share.
There will be a hearing on February 28th at 1:30pm.
This is likely in order to drain what little funding we have raised so far. Any legal action that Jeff can take depends entirely upon the custody evaluation.
It was a beautiful fall weekend and Jeff and the boys came over Saturday evening for a great time. We grilled, and ate together, the kids played in the backyard and we lit a fire in the fire pit and just enjoyed watching ALL of our boys be boys. They chiseled rocks and made “potions” out of leaves and grass and dirt. They ran and laughed and played on the swing-set and played tag and for a minute… it was almost easy to forget that they would have to go home the very next day to a very different environment. As a Christian, and a mother, I have a very hard time letting those precious little souls leave knowing that it will be at least 2 weeks before they get to really enjoy time with other boys and the freedom to be themselves. The relief Jude feels in an environment where he doesn’t have to pretend his brother is a girl is apparent. He lights up and has such a personality. They are both gracious and kind kids with such different abilities and talents. If it pains me to watch them go, I can’t even begin to imagine the suffering Jeff experiences each time he is required to give them up. The time to fight this is now, but without means, there is simply no way to make any move.
I mentioned last week that a very gracious person is willing to match any donations up to $5000. If it is within your means to give to help protect these children, now is a perfect time to do so.
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